Thursday, November 11, 2010
olivia's short life made a huge impact on a lot of people. her sister sarah turned 2 on monday. their birthdays are so close together. just over a year apart. cody, lola and i were honored to go plant flower bulbs up at kamilles gravesite to celebrate both of the birthdays. we did our best to buy the ones that claimed to be deer-proof. i'm curious to see which ones the deer don't eat. i've never been good at helping people deal with grief, i mostly try to help with other things in their life that need tending to- helping with kids, cooking a meal, cleaning, laundry. but as far as talking to them i feel like i don't know the right words to say. i express emotion far better in writing than when i talk. and that's still not very well. hopefully they understand that they are loved and thought of often.